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I have been thinking about the whole dating game and started wondering why I seemed to be more attracted to women who are younger than I am. I came up with a few answers that made sense married lady wants orgasm swingers and I'd be more than willing to discuss them with anyone who is curious. I also came up with some very good reasons why you should consider dating a slightly older guy and here they are.
1. There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Mature guys are more confident while most younger guys are usually little more than cocky. I know what I want and I'm not afraid to go after it while younger guys are usually too busy making fools of themselves. So if you're tired of being manipulated or dealing with all that immaturity and BS, dating an older guy might be a refreshing change of pace for you. Just ask yourself; Do you want to be another notch in some player's headboard or do you want to feel like you actually matter?
2. You will get more respect when dating and older guy, because we know how to treat you, not because we are playing you, but because that's how we roll--meaning that common courtesy and being polite still mean something. However, don't ever mistake kindness for weakness, because if do and try to take advantage of it, because we've been played before and will you out on it.
3. Everyone has baggage, whether it's scars from a bad childhood, failed relationships or whatever. Older guys are more tolerant of such issues than a younger guy will be, because we have more life experience and understand that you aren't perfect. Truth be told, we don't want you to be. I'm more interested in you just the way you are and won't try to change you into who I want you to be.
4. You'll probably feel safer and more confident dating a more mature man, because we understand that safety and feeling comfortable is important to you. We know that you might be nervous or unsure for a little while. We aren't going to rush or pressure you into something you aren't completely comfortable with. Good things come to those who wait, right?
5. Mature guys not only know where the best restaurants are, we can actually afford to take you there. Ask yourself this. Do you want a Big Mac or a Filet Mignon'?
6. Mature guys are can be far more supportive of your goals, dreams and ambitions. We might even have an idea or two of how you can reach them and will often do what we can to help you get there. Why? Because we want you to succeed and don't feel threatened when you do, the way younger guys might.
7. A mature guy isn't drunk dial you at 2:00 in the morning hoping for a booty . We might just to see if you want to go out for a bite to eat or catch a movie, or take off for the weekend. You get the idea.
8. Romance wise, older guys know how to make you feel special. While gifts or vacations or little notes where you least expect them may be a part of all that, it is really more about treating you well, respecting you and paying attention to you; something most younger men wouldn't do. We know what we are doing in the bedroom and realize there is more to it than just getting you there. We understand that the excitement and connection are not in the act itself, but in that 'getting there'. We also tend to show more concern with pleasing you than reaching our own satisfaction, so for those of you who's current guy just takes care of himself and leaves you there feeling 'slightly less than satisfied', this can be a huge benefit. Enough said?
9. Older guys are also better at reading your emotions and knowing what you might need or want in any particular moment. We will give you a simple hug and some encouraging words that everything will be okay if that is what you need, or we will throw you down on the bed and tear your clothes off if that is what you need (or want). Think about it.
10. Last and certainly not least, an older guy is going to be this cool for ever. Young guys can lose their lust for life, but an older guy who still has that lust is never going to lose it and that is exactly what makes it easy for us to keep up with you.
So that's it. I've said my piece. I've given you plenty to think about. Now it's your turn to take a gamble and send a reply, even if you're just a little bit curious. If you aren't interested in dating an older guy, I would still totally dig hearing your thoughts on this whole posting. Who knows, maybe we could each make a new friend. Please put your age and today's date in the subject line so that I know you aren't some spam thing.